Learn about the Internet with me.
In most households, kids seem to know more about how to get around on the Internet than parents do.  Spend some quality time exploring together.

Let me come to you if I have a bad experience.
Kids can very innocently come across a Web site that may not be appropriate.  Don't place the blame on them.  Encourage them to tell you if they see something that makes them feel funny or uncomfortable, whether during home, library or school Internet usage.

Talk to my friends' parents, so I don't have to.
Make sure the parents of your children's friends know that you monitor Internet use at home.  And when your child's friends are at your house, share your rules with them and let them know you'll be nearby.

Let me show you what I can do.
Take time to watch your child play games, draw a picture or do research on the Internet.  Let them express pride in their accomplishments.

Explain the rules, so I understand.
Children want their parents to set limits.  It makes them feel secure and lets them know where they stand.  Of course, they still might complain once in a while.